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Hartynspren
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02.01.2023
Beiträge: 178
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Hi All - I’m new to this forum but I need some independent advice / comments on my current ‘situation’ which is one where I can’t / don’t want to talk to anyone in my friends circle about.
My long term partner and I (father of our kids), had been talking about having a threesome (FMF) for ages, it generally got us going during sex etc. the other evening this talk turned into a reality when my friend came over and we ended up having a threesome. Without going into graphic details, the threesome involved pretty much everything except penis penetration to my friend.
Everything was consensual and I was actually the main instigator (idiot) which was fuelled by a considerable amount of alcohol.
Post threesome I now feel like part of me has died inside. I’m so low and I can’t get the images of my partner and my friend out of my mind. To say it makes me akin crawl is an understatement. I cannot see how our relationship can continue, because the intimacy that we once had has been lost (for me anyway). My partner is totally fine, however is obviously upset that I am feeling like this.
I can’t even sleep in our bed (where it took place) because the reminders are so stark.
has anyone been in this situation? I’m not looking for a sympathy vote here, just some guidance or to read other people’s experiences, because at the moment I’m so lost and low.
thanks in advance. X
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Raymondello
Angemeldet seit:
02.01.2023
Beiträge: 140
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My advice would be to deal with this as soon as possible. If you don't, the longer you leave it, the harder it will be to sort things out between you and your partner. Post threesome regret is a lot more common that some would have you believe, and it's usual for each person involved to have a different reaction.
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